“One Date Wonders” began as a laughing matter that even with my high sense of humor I could not make up these dating experiences after being newly divorced from a seventeen year marriage. Most of my friends, both single and married, were baffled by the experiences shared. Each encouraged me to keep a journal of the wildly hilarious, but true moments. To protect the innocent, no real identities are exposed, but the stories shared in the pages to follow are absolute truths from the baby blue eyes I view the world through.
In sharing my experiences, I am hoping that somewhere out in this vast world another man or woman may learn that they too are experiencing something so bizarre, but real in the dating world and can find the humor or silver lining in each circumstance and encounter with another. If not, maybe this is the bedtime humor you’ve been searching for despite the countless Cosmo magazines and Facebook quizzes from friends.
I married my first year of college, back in 1991, after only dating a dozen or so guys from high school and around town. Lots happened in the 17 years of marriage: 2 kids, 2 dogs, 2 cats and many moves for his career and the in betweens that most all go through when growing apart. After divorcing and not knowing which way to turn to meet someone or even how to date, what the rules were now, I turned to all avenues: online dating, dating classes, a professional dating service and friends. I read a few books and joined many “clubs” for singles. Because I was ready to “experience” dating all over, I didn’t say “no” to any invitations or opportunities, thinking an evening or lunch out might be a time to learn something of another and more importantly, learn something about myself. Boy, was I right!
I have always kept a journal; this time I open my journal to you. I am “an ordinary girl, living an extraordinary life” as I have always said to those who ask. I live simply, but honestly, work a regular job, live in a regular home and avoid drama as much as I possibly can. My hopes are that others may see that their dating experiences are not in vain, but building them for what they will and will not accept to make a lasting relationship, if that’s what they desire. I stand by the adage of “happiness is the journey, not the destination.” My sincere hope is you will laugh and enjoy these stories. If you learn from this, Great! If you just have a good laugh before bedtime, that’s even better!
I have always kept a journal; this time I open my journal to you. I am “an ordinary girl, living an extraordinary life” as I have always said to those who ask. I live simply, but honestly, work a regular job, live in a regular home and avoid drama as much as I possibly can. My hopes are that others may see that their dating experiences are not in vain, but building them for what they will and will not accept to make a lasting relationship, if that’s what they desire. I stand by the adage of “happiness is the journey, not the destination.” My sincere hope is you will laugh and enjoy these stories. If you learn from this, Great! If you just have a good laugh before bedtime, that’s even better!
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